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Mental Health & Relationships: Recognizing Abusive DARVO Tactics

Darlene Lancer, JD, LMFT explains the D.A.R.V.O. tactic that abusers use to manipulate victims....
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Strategies to Support Mental Wellness: What’s in Your Toolbox?

Self-advocate Laura Hamilton discusses the concept of the Wellness Toolbox, and shares strategies that...
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Getting to the Core of Stress & Anxiety

Evan Boxer-Cook discusses how he discovered the trigger for his stress, and how that...
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The Codependent False Self

Darlene Lancer, JD, LMFT explains the concept of a false self and its effects...
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What is Nonverbal Learning Disorder?

Self-advocate Julia Futo explains: what is the neurodiverse condition known as NVLD, or nonverbal...
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An Internal Family Systems Perspective For Autism & PTSD

Autism self-advocate and therapist Sean Inderbitzen explores the concepts of "Internal Family Systems", and...
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OCASG Career Club: Helping College Graduates on the Spectrum Start Their Careers

Autism mom and OCASG founder Judi Uttal discusses their work helping autistic college students...
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The Curse and the Gift of Inattentive-Type ADHD

Kristin Wilcox, Ph.D. discusses the challenges and benefits of her son's experiences with ADHD....

ADHD Has a Terrible Name

Self-advocate Cynthia Hammer, MSW explores the trouble accurately naming the diagnosis known as ADHD....
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Dealing with Aggressive People

Darlene Lancer, JD, LMFT covers how to navigate conflicts with aggressive people....
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Autism & Masking

Self-advocate Robert Schmus discusses why masking can be harmful to autistic individuals....
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Neurodiversity and Grieving

Parenting Coach, Cognitive Specialist, and Autism mom Bea Moise, M.S., BCCS. discusses the processing...
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Autistic Girls & Camouflaging

Nicola Heady looks at the phenomena of "camouflaging" in girls with autism, and the...
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Why Educators Need Meditation

Educator Hilda Pacheco shares how meditation can help educators, especially during times of uncertainty....
Cover image - Take Your Pick: An Autistic’s Journey Away From STEM

Take Your Pick: An Autistic’s Journey Away From STEM

Autistic self-advocate Christiana Koch discusses her journey in finding fulfillment and a career outside...
Cover image - Today's Caveman: ADHD, Recovery, & The Brain

Today’s Caveman: ADHD, Recovery, & The Brain

Coach Mike Liss, Esq. shares how his journey with ADHD led him from a...
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The Narcissistic Parent

Darlene Lancer, JD, LMFT discusses narcissistic parents, and how they can create toxic households....
Cover image - What I Learned from Interviewing 24 Men with Inattentive ADHD

What I Learned from Interviewing 24 Men with Inattentive ADHD

Cynthia Hammer, MSW, Executive Director of the Inattentive ADHD Coalition, shares what she learned...
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Narcissists’ Dirty Little Secret

Darlene Lancer, JD, LMFT discusses the feelings that narcissists hide, and how to look...
Cover image - Autism & Yoga: "Settling For" vs. "Settling In"

Autism, Perfectionism, and Yoga: “Settling For” vs. “Settling In”

Sean Inderbitzen and his friend Bibs explore ways yoga and mindfulness can help autistic...
Adulting a basic primer for different brains

Redefining Adulting: a Brief Primer for Different Brains

Rachel Bédard, Ph.D. looks at "adulting," and examines how people, regardless of diagnosis, develop...
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Online ADHD Directories: Proceed with Caution

Self-advocate Cynthia Hammer, MSW discusses the problems present in many online directories for ADHD....
Cover image - Social Spaces & Meeting People: Dating on the Autism Spectrum

Social Spaces & Meeting People: Dating on the Autism Spectrum

Self-advocate and therapist Sean Inderbitzen explores some of the challenges of dating as an...
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B.R.I.D.G.E.: Stigma-Free Connections for the Neurodivergent

ADHD self-advocate and Theara founder Renee Rosales M.Ed. discusses a new approach to forming...
Cover image - Adult ADHD & Uninformed Clinicians: Enough Already!

Adult ADHD & Uninformed Clinicians: Enough Already!

Self-advocate Cynthia Hammer, MSW discusses the challenges of finding clinicians informed about ADHD....
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How to Be Present

Darlene Lancer, JD, LMFT discusses what being "present" means, and how to be it...
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The Gift of Neurodiversity

Jacki Edry shares her family's journey of discovering, accepting, and harnessing their neurodiversity....
Cover image - My Experiences With Anxiety & How I Cope

My Experiences With Anxiety & How I Cope

Sarai Welch discusses her journey dealing with anxiety, and the tools that help her....
Cover image - Myths About ADHD Can Contribute To Our Early Deaths

Myths About ADHD Can Contribute To Our Early Deaths

Cynthia Hammer, MSW shares 7 common myths that can effect the lives of people...
Cover image - Finding My Connect: Building a Virtual Community for Neurodivergent Kids

Finding My Connect: Building a Virtual Community for Neurodivergent Kids

Caroline Bilal shares how searching for resources for her son with Syngap1 led her...
Cover image - Splitting: Why We Love Dr. Jekyll and and Hate Mr. Hyde

Splitting: Why We Love Dr. Jekyll and Hate Mr. Hyde

Darlene Lancer, JD, LMFT discusses "splitting", and the emotional and phycological effects it can...
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Autism and Medicaid: a Roadmap to Mental Health Services

Behavioral health clinician and autism self-advocate Sean Inderbitzen outlines how to advocate for more...
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My Life with Inattentive ADHD

Cynthia Hammer, MSW shares how receiving a diagnosis of Inattentive ADHD inspired her mission...
Cover image - Sensory Issues For Neurodiverse Students

Sensory Issues For Neurodiverse Students

Lisa R. Berman, LMSW discusses common sensory challenges experienced by neurodiverse students....
Cover image - Self-Love is Key to Codependency Recovery

How Self-Love is Key to Codependency Recovery

Darlene Lancer, JD, MFT discusses the role self-acceptance and self-love play in recovering from...
Cover image - Uncertainty & Autism: A Self-Advocate’s Perspective

Uncertainty & Autism: A Self-Advocate’s Perspective

Autism self-advocate Aaron Bouma discusses uncertainty, and the role it plays with his anxiety...
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Back to School: How Mainstream Education has Changed in the Past 40 Years

Educator Hilda Pacheco reflects on the changes in neurodiversity awareness that she has witnessed...
Cover image - Are You a Narcissist’s Supply?

Are You a Narcissist’s Supply?

Darlene Lancer, JD, MFT discusses how people with narcissistic personality disorder may use others...

Navigating ‘Back to School’ for Children with Autism

Autism self-advocate Kimberly Gerry Tucker shares how her own educational challenges helped her understand...

Addressing Neurodiversity Through Universal Design

David Banes discusses looking at the concepts of Universal Design through the lens of...
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Why Don’t Women With Autism Get Diagnosed?

Autism mom Nicola Heady discusses common reasons girls with autism go undiagnosed, and why...
Cover image - Moment of Truth: Transitioning Into Adulthood

Moment of Truth: Transitioning Into Adulthood

Daniel Koffler discusses why he founded New Frontiers to help people transition into adulthood....
Cover image - An Anxiety Self-Advocate’s School Journey

An Anxiety Self-Advocate’s School Journey

Self-advocate and Different Brains intern Sarai Welch discusses how she navigated anxiety while pursuing...
Cover image - Hiding Your “True Self”: The Seeds of Codependency

Hiding Your “True Self”: The Seeds of Codependency

Darlene Lancer, JD, MFT discusses how our "true self" develops, and how it can...
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The Coronavirus Pandemic: Tomer’s Journey With Autism:

Tomer, an intern, shares his story about dealing with the coronavirus pandemic and how...
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The Coronavirus Pandemic: JR’s Journey With Autism:

JR, autism self-advocate, shares his story about dealing with the coronavirus pandemic and how...
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Using Martial Arts to Cope with ADHD

Rochelle Brenner discusses how children with ADHD can benefit from learning martial arts....
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The Coronavirus Pandemic: Haley’s Journey With Autism

Haley Moss, board member, shares her story about dealing with the coronavirus pandemic and...
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Are Empaths Codependent?

Darlene Lancer, JD, MFT looks at the relationship between empathy and codependency....
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The Coronavirus Pandemic: Noah’s Journey With Autism

Noah, an intern, shares his story about dealing with the coronavirus pandemic and how...
Cover image - Bit By Bit & Day By Day: A Dad's Journey for Acceptance of Neurodiversity

Bit By Bit & Day By Day: A Dad’s Journey for Neurodiversity Acceptance

Nic Lander shares how being the father of 3 neurodivergent kids led to him...
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Steps To Codependency Recovery

Darlene Lancer, JD, MFT discusses the progressive nature of codependency, and offers steps for...
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The Coronavirus Pandemic: Ray’s Journey With Autism:

Ray, an intern, shares his story about dealing with the coronavirus pandemic and how...

Saluting “The Special Mother” by Erma Bombeck

Hackie Reitman, M.D. discusses Erma Bombeck's piece dedicated to the mothers of special needs...
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The Coronavirus Pandemic: Hackie’s Journey With ADHD

Hackie, founder of Different Brains, shares his story about dealing with the coronavirus pandemic...
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Learned Helplessness Is Not a Life Sentence

Darlene Lancer, JD, MFT looks at "learned helplessness", and how to overcome it....
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The Coronavirus Pandemic: Zack R’s Story

Zack R, 23, shares his story about dealing with the coronavirus pandemic & how...
Cover image - Different & The Same: Empowering Autistic Children Through Learning

Different & The Same: Empowering Autistic Children Through Learning

Celest Austin, MD, PhD shares how helping her sister with autism learn led to...
Cover image - Embracing Neurodivergence and Becoming a Constant Self-Advocate

Embracing Neurodivergence & Becoming a Constant Self-Advocate

J.R Reed discusses how he embraced his autism diagnosis, and why self-advocacy is so...
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The Coronavirus Pandemic: Jonathan’s Adaptation to Change

Jonathan, intern for Different Brains, shares his story about dealing with the coronavirus pandemic...
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How Google Could Help People Living with Dementia

Dementia self-advocate Michael Ellenbogen shares ways he thinks Google could improve their Home and...

Autism and Me: Life on the Spectrum

Self-advocate, Noah Najjar discuses his life with Autism and talks about the positive side...
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The Coronavirus Pandemic: Debbi’s Journey With ADD

Debbi, board member, shares her story about dealing with the coronavirus and how having...
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The Coronavirus Pandemic: Lynne’s Adaptation to Change

Lynne, board member, shares her story about dealing with the coronavirus pandemic and her...
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How are Your Boundaries in the Pandemic?

Darlene Lancer, JD, MFT shares tips for maintaining healthy boundaries during the pandemic....
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Overcoming Adversity: The Positive Side of Trauma

Wendy Lyman looks at the positive growth that can come from overcoming adversity and...
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The Coronavirus Pandemic: Kimberley’s Journey With Epilepsy

Kimberley, board member, shares her story about dealing with the coronavirus and how having...
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Neurodiversity and Music in a New Normal

Musician and educator Joseph S. Lento shares his experiences teaching music remotely during COVID-19....
Cover image - Mental Health & Relationships: When Narcissists Won’t Let Go

Mental Health & Relationships: When Narcissists Won’t Let Go

Darlene Lancer, JD, MFT discusses strategies to deal with a narcissist that won't let...
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Autism, Thomas Szasz, and “The Myth of Mental Illness”

Autism self-advocate Danny Taylor-Smith looks at how the theories of Dr. Thomas Szasz influenced...
Cover image - Exploring The Culture Of Abuse Within The Developmental Disabilities Field

Exploring The Culture Of Abuse Within The Developmental Disabilities Field

Coralia Ivan-Suciu discusses the prevalence of abuse within the field of developmental disabilities assistance,...
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The Coronavirus Pandemic: Philip’s Adaptation to Change

Philip, an intern, shares his story about dealing with the coronavirus pandemic and his...
Cover image - You’re Utterly Miserable…Here’s What You Can Try

You’re Utterly Miserable… Here’s What You Can Try

Self-advocate Kim Lew shares tips she uses to cope with major depression....
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Why It’s Hard To Receive

Darlene Lancer, JD, MFT discusses why it can feel uncomfortable to receive....